IT is such an IMPORTANT topic…so let’s continue on ABANDONMENT⁠

In a previous post(s) I talked about how Abandonment might look like in relationships (both in intimate & friendships)…CHECK IT OUT!⁠

Abandonment looks like in CHILDHOOD:⁠

Not attending to the basic needs, such as⁠
👉food, shelter, cloths, safety, protection⁠

👉listening,being heard, communication, constructive feedbacks, guidance, answering questions⁠

👉 touch, connection, acceptance, helping to process emotions⁠

👉lack of respect, lack of love⁠

This can lead to not feeling ⁠
♦️loved, ⁠
♦️belonging, ⁠
♦️welcomed, ⁠
♦️good enough, ⁠
♦️worthy of love (attention, connection), ⁠
♦️not deserving⁠
♦️something is wrong with me….AND ⁠

👉This feelings & thoughts & conclusions most likely LEAD (as and ADULT) to ♥️low self-esteem, ♥️confusion, ♥️feeling lost, ♥️not wanted, ♥️not desired, ♥️not attractive enough, ♥️different, ♥️depressed, ♥️emotionally messy, ♥️no sense of living…⁠