Abandonment vs. closure

A KEY to live a more harmonious life IS to understand yourself + understand what you do to yourself & others…🔆AND choosing to act on a way that brings more harmonie for everyone involved.⁠
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🔆Therefore…let’s make sure that we are on the same page guys!⁠
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ABANDONMENT….is NOT⁠
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❌sitting down with your partner and saying goodbye to each other⁠
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❌having a closure, talking out things, listening to each other, finalise and move on ⁠
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❌uncoupling, moving out, separate from each other on a conscious way⁠
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ABANDONMENT IS⁠
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❌vanishing without saying a thing⁠
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❌ghosting, not answering the phone, ignoring the other⁠
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❌leaving the other one hanging in the field created together – while you already moved on⁠
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Abandonment is really harmful guys…⁠

➕it’s hurting, ➕leaving someone confused, ➕trying to draw a conclusion by themselves , ➕figuring it out…⁠
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Choose a more respectful, honest and loving way:⁠

sit down & say good bye!⁠

Don’t need to explain what & why & why not ➕ no drama ➕ no guilt tripping ➕ no shaming…just say goodbye!⁠