
The other day I posted about how living with a wounded heart can actually prevent someone from attracting THE love.
I also mentioned that the variations are many, as the way of going about and around hurt and wound and love depends on the personal character, history, coping mechanism.
And here are some other ways to block out love:

This testing is again an unconscious desire to feel safe, to be sure if the relating is safe for you to get engaged with your heart as well.
But even your partner made up to the test(s), your wounded heart can’t feel safe (enough) due previous hurt…can’t soften fully, receive deeply




Any of these ways are tactics to keep you heart from potential heart.
Still having a sort of experience of love; trying to meet you basic needs for connection, intimacy, sex, companionship…


