There is another pandemic, not only the covid-19 one…but there is a pandemic in sexuality. this shows up many women being disconnected from their bodies, sensuality, desires. Many men as well, but that is the topic of another post.
Having Sex when one is disconnected from the body leads to not feeling much in overall the body, but most just around the genitals. sex and intimacy which could be a ‘sacred’, uplifting, fulfilling act turns into an act of two bodies rubbing against each other.
No wonder that this act of ‘masturbating’ on each other leaves both parties unsatisfied. Many women feel empty after such an act, or used, or with a feeling of ‘that is it, is that all?’ – what is the big fuss around sex if that is all? And I am not referring to having and orgasm or not having. Orgasm, when it is ‘just’ physical instead of an energetic, emotionally charged orgasm can leave a woman unsatisfied, even disappointed.
Did you, as a woman receive real sexual education?
I mean, REAL education?
I don’t mean stuff you picked up from movies, or from conversations or from porn.
Education on how to connect to yourself? How to allow yourself to feel, to surrender to your own feelings and sensations? Where and how to touch yourself and being touched by someone to experience pleasure?
Many women, believe me, MANY woman trying to figure it out what they like, and think that if they don’t feel appealed to what was displayed in mainstream media; then something is wrong with them….and feel ashamed about ‘not having’ the greatest experiences, ashamed to talk about it with their partners. Even if they feel ready to talk about that they want something else – they don’t know what to ask for…because they don’t know their own bodies.
How would you know what you supposed to know to have great sex, without knowledge around sexuality?
How would you know what to ask for, without knowing what you don’t know?
I think, that it is time for women to come back to themselves, to experience what their bodies can offer them in sexuality. It is time for women to claim their pleasure, to claim their sexual power.
Notice, how powerful female sexuality is! You see in media this power to be used to generate a flow of income, attracting attention to goods and services for sale. You see how the female body, sensuality, attractiveness is utilised for selling cars, properties, vitamins…
Basically, this is objectifying women, ‘using’ their beauty instead of ‘worshipping’ them.
Again, no wonder that many women are confused about themselves, especially around femininity and sexuality. They hide they sensuality, being afraid of their own power, judgmental of their own bodies, ashamed of what they want in life (also in the bedroom), also critical of other women, especially woman in their authentic power.
I would like to invite you to a 3-day intro event, where I guide you through some powerful practices to start to establish the connection to your body, sexuality, to your superpower (primal nature)
Friday, Saturday, Sunday, 5-7. Februar
6-8pm (CET)/each day
Free of charge
All women are welcomed!
this is a program for Women only, but one for men is about to be scheduled.
